My happiness quest continues, despite rumours that this week had the most depressing day in the year on it (blue monday - apparently it was on the 19th of January - a day I was feeling quite Jovial actually). Before I move onto my topic of the day, I wanted to say a massive thank you to all those people forwarding me happiness talks, quotes, articles and pictures, you are doing a splendid job helping me in my happiness project. Or you think I am a miserable git and sincerely need it. The optomist in me thinks the prior.
Whilst researching about happiness, I came across the happiness database that had some really interesting, and actually quite amusing happiness ideas. However, this massive study that was compiled really highlighted some important things for me.
I guess thats reassuring, we are all programmed to be happy and we generally all believe that we are. And its ok to sometimes feel unhappy. I will spend the next few blogs analysing the work of Professor Veenhoven at length, but for now, let me throw you a research finding:
"You tend to be happier if you think you're good looking, rather than if you actually, objectively speaking, are."
discuss!!
Whilst researching about happiness, I came across the happiness database that had some really interesting, and actually quite amusing happiness ideas. However, this massive study that was compiled really highlighted some important things for me.
- Happiness is not comparative. It doesn't matter if your neighbour has more/less than you, it won't make you happier.
- Happiness varies in your lifetime. Some moments make you happier than others. This means it is not genetic, its circumstantial.
- The majority of mankind enjoys life. Unhappiness is the exception.
- Happiness rises in modern societies - so the idea that modernisation is contributing to our misery is not true.
I guess thats reassuring, we are all programmed to be happy and we generally all believe that we are. And its ok to sometimes feel unhappy. I will spend the next few blogs analysing the work of Professor Veenhoven at length, but for now, let me throw you a research finding:
"You tend to be happier if you think you're good looking, rather than if you actually, objectively speaking, are."
discuss!!
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